Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Cici by Ladygasm

CiCi by  Ladygasm

This vibrator is nice with it's clitoral attachment, the clitoral attachment has little nubs on it that increase the stimulation and they do move with the vibrations when held at a lighter pressure.  It can stimulate your G-spot as well as your clitoris simultaneously.  You could use this one anally as it has the clitoral attachment and that would stop it from going missing and the silicone is safe to be sterilized.

This is actually my second vibrator that has the nubs on the clitoral arm and I have to say that I do really enjoy them and they add to stimulation for me.  The vibrations do seem to decrease with heavy pressure on the clitoral arm.  This vibe has the projectiles on the base that enable it to be stood up.  This is the first vibrator that I have had that has this feature.

The Cici is completely smooth and it has a soft silky feel to it.  The shaft portion of the vibrator is completely flexible and bends easily.  The clitoral arm too has a great amount of flexibility to it.  The curve to the end of the vibrator has a curve to it that cups the g-spot.

Cici  is made from silicone and ABS Plastic.  The plastic portion is the controls and battery cap area in black.   The silicone is a soft, silky feeling silicone that does collect a small amount of lint but not a lint magnet.   It has no drag.  The plastic is matte with the same soft  feel of the silicone.  The plastic and silicone are both hypoallergenic, non porous, latex and phthalates free.  There is no tastes and no smells to the toy.

The Cici has a total length of  7 inches and of those, 2  3/4   inches are insertable.  It has a greatest girth of 1  inch.  The clitoral arm sits 1  1/4  inches off of the shaft and has a diameter of   approximately 1/2 inch.  The clitoral nubs sit on the very end of the clitoral arm.  There are  7 nubs that sit up approximately 1/8th of an inch.

The Cici runs on 2 AAA batteries.  The end cap screws off to reveal a waterproof O ring.  It is not marketed a s waterproof but it is splash proof.  There are 2 control buttons that are contained on the black plastic end portion.  The button closest to the end turns the vibrator on and off.   The top button controls the patterns.  There is no memory to the toy and when you turn it off and then on again you start back at the first setting.
The Cici has 2 motors that can function independently of each other.  One motor is in the clitoral arm and the other is located in the end of the vibe in the  g spot area.  The Cici is really quiet and cannot be heard over the covers when you have it on it's highest setting.

First pattern is  constant vibrations in the shaft, 2nd is vibrations both in the shaft and in the clitoral arm.  3rd is a vibration only in the clitoral arm, 4th is both areas pulsating at a slow speed .  Next  is a pulse on and off faster in both areas.   Then there  is a chaotic mix of pulses in both areas and  the last pattern is  a higher level of vibrations in both areas.

The vibrations on the highest setting seem to be about a 2 out of 5 on the vibration scale. It would be best for someone with a sensitive clitoris.  The vibrations sit right on the edge between rumbly and buzzy. It really could be interpreted either way.  The nubs on the clitoral arm really do add to the stimulation.  As I mentioned earlier the vibrations do tend to decrease with pressure.

It is best to only use water based lubes with the Cici as silicone lubes can cause the finish to be compromised over time.  I honestly didn't need to use much lube when using this toy.  It cleans up easily with antibacterial soaps and water, toy spray or toy wipes.  You can also wipe it down with a 10% bleach solution.  I store my Cici in the box that it came in but you can also throw it in your sock drawer or keep it in a plastic baggy.  Be sure to not store you silicone toys with toys that are made of other materials because they too can ruin the finish on the toys.

The Cici has a great packaging.  It comes in a burgundy box that the lid states Ladygasm on the cover.  It is somewhat discreet.  The lid lifts off to reveal the toy nestled into a cut out that fits the toy.  The cut out is coated in a velvety type of finish.  The velvety finish does shed some lint onto the toy but only a minimal amount.  The Cici doesn't come with any instructions so you just play with it to figure it out.
The Cici does feel good but it is a little small for my taste and I feel that the vibrations are somewhat weak.  It may be best for beginners because size queens would be disappointed.

The Cici is only available at Ladygasm.


 You can view the product page here.

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Get a Dildo!

Front Row:  Vamp, Alien,  Maverick
Back Row: Amor,  The Realistic, Vaca, Maia, Enjoy Pharma

Amor Dildo from Fun Factory

Amor  By  FunFactory

Amor is a squishy,  flexible dildo. It has a slight curve to it that will give g-spot and p-spot  stimulation.  You can use this one alone or for couples play.  It's for the boys and the girls!  It has a flared base so it can be used both anally as well as vaginally.  It's base allows for it to be used in harnesses.  This is a great one for beginners.  Beginners to pegging, beginners to dildo's or beginners to anal play.

The Amor is made from a flexible  very slight textured silicone.  The texture is very slight with no apparent grooves but it has a "rough" type of feel to it.  The roughness really isn't felt with use.   It does have a slight lip to the posterior side that simulates a penis head. This type of silicone is squishy and you can squeeze it and it will "give". It really does not collect any lint or hair but, it  does have some drag to it. It actually comes in several colors.  I have a pink, and I have seen black and orange.

The silicone is hypoallergenic, non porous, phthalates and latex free.  There are no smells or tastes to it.  The silicone is very flexible and it can be bent almost in half with pressure.

The Amor is a total of  5   1/2   inches with  5   inches being insertable.  The widest girth is  1  1/2 inches.  The base is somewhat of a triangular shape that is  3  inches by   3  inches.  The base is approximately  1/2  inches thick.  It does fit wonderfully in several of my harnesses as well as my Heeldo.

The Armor is easy to clean and sterilize, you can boil it, place it in the dishwasher, wipe it down with a 10% bleach solution.  You can use antibacterial soaps and water, toy sprays or wipes.  With the silicone toys  you can only use water based lubes and there are some hybrids that are compatible   You can test out your lube on the bottom of the base of the toy.  Silicone can damage the finish on the toys.  There really isn't any special storage requirement, I keep mine in a plastic baggy or you can store it in the box that it comes in.

I really love my Amor.  It has so much versatility and I can use it in many ways.  It is not so large that it is intimidating and it is not too small.  It works with my accessories.  I do get g-spot stimulation with it even when I use it anally.   It works good as a transitional toy when used anally  to work up to larger toys.   The slight lip does add for extra stimulation.  I can easily suggest this one for everyone.

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Wicked Wednesday Waiting

Oh, the prompt was just too much.


I like this image is shows what I see as I am waiting for you to come to me.

Notice the swing attachment?

Come See Who Else is being Wicked...

Wicked Wednesday... be inspired & share...

Monday, April 29, 2013

TMI Detective


The Amateur Detective

1) Did you ever find someone else’s stash of sex toys, lubes, etc.?

Yes, my parents, It took me all these years to figure out what that Wahl was for.  My dad and uncle had great porn collections that I got into many times when I was a teenager.  I have found some of my friend's stash over the years.  Most people are pretty open about it now a days.

2) Did you ever search someone else’s computer to determine their porn habits? Were you ever the object of such a search?

No, I have never had the opportunity to do so.

3) Did you ever investigate to see if two people were getting it on?

Of course that kind of investigation is fun!!

4) Did you ever look for naughty pictures on someone else’s phone?

No, never had the opportunity to do so.

5) Were you ever involved with an investigation (formal or informal) into whether some one was cheating on his/her lover?

No not intentionally,   I found out that my friends had partner's that were cheating on them.  I have now learned to keep my mouth shut!  Some individuals really don't want to know the truth and then I ended up being the bad guy.

Bonus: Do you have a secret online identity so that you can find a secret lover?

No, but when the time comes that does seem to be a good idea!

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Toy With Me Tuesday...

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Killer Red Shoes #8

No 8

Yes, I know they aren't all red, but these are my favorite shoes

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Sinful Sunday Pins

Oh, Pretty Clothes Pins

What can I do with these?

Sinful Sunday

A few of the Favorites

A Few of the Favorites

Due to many questions the toys are now explained.

From left to right

The Stronic from Fun Factory

Lelo Smartwand, Large

The Crave Duet 

Matryoshka by Rianne S

The We Vibe Salsa

and of course  Spunk Pink lube

These of course are not all of my favorites,  I also have favorite dildo's and vibrators.

Stay tuned for Masturbation Month!

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Thursday, April 25, 2013

May is Masturbation Month!!

National Masturbation Month!!

It seems that masturbation month is credited to Good Vibrations, they started celebrating it in 1995.  It was started to highlight the importance of masturbation for nearly everyone: it is safe, healthy, free, and pleasurable.  Let's face it, It is with someone that you love and it just feels good!

I will be celebrating with a few of my favorites.

A few toys that live on my night stand...

What is your favorite toy?

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Beginner's Bit Gag

Beginner's Bit Gag  By Pipedreams

***The beginner's Bit Gag was provided to me free of charge from Uberkinky  in exchange for an honest review, this is in accordance to the FTC's guidelines****


Adjustable straps
Beginner Friendly
East to clean


Won't hold up to heavy play
Inexpensive non sturdy materials
Vinyl straps "give" after time
Can cause jaw discomfort

The Beginner's Bit gag really is for beginners.  It is a simple design with inexpensive materials that doesn't cost much to try.  Experienced users of Bit gag's and BDSM play would be very disappointed in this one.  For beginner's it is great to give you a "feel" for bit gags and how they would work for you.  You can use this for pony type of play or for beginner your adventures into BDSM and gagging.

The Beginner's bit gag is made of PVC plastic for the gag mouth piece and it is able to be bitten into and it leave marks in the plastic.  The PVC is non porous, hypoallergenic and can be sanitized between users.  The metal rings hold the vinyl straps to the PVC.  It is not stated anywhere if the metal is nickle free.  The vinyl straps are vegan friendly.  The straps are made in a way that you can make more holes in the vinyl to adjust the sizes for the wearer. The  rivets  and the buckle are make of an inexpensive metal. There are no smells to this gag and straps and there are no tastes associated with it.

The PVC plastic portion of the gag is approximately 5 inches long.  It has a diameter of  3/4 inch. The straps are 1/2 inch wide.   The strap that contains the holes is  14 inches long.  The strap with the buckle is 7  3/4 inches long.  The buckle is 1 inch by 3/4 inch wide.  There are 4 holes in the strap for adjustments.  The holes are placed approximately 1  1/4 inches apart.

None of the pre set holes worked for our sizing and we had to make new holes to get the bit to fit properly.  The vinyl was very easy to make new holes in.  The vinyl is actually very thin and it is double layered.  It was already starting to separate when the product arrived before we even tried the gag on.  The metal rings that hold the vinyl straps to the PVC are flexible and they move freely through the pre drilled holes in the PVC.  The straps move freely along the metal rings so that you can determine your perfect fit easily.

The straps are long enough to be able to accommodate many sizes of heads and you they are long enough to be worn across the upper back portion of the head or around the lower portion of the head as per the wearer's preference.  The vinyl straps do start to give with wear.  They also tend to slide around on the hair making so that you have to readjust frequently.

The Bit also comes with a free blindfold that is very basic.

The PVC plastic may also cause some discomfort in the jaw and with the teeth as it has no "give" to it.
The PVC plastic is easy to clean with antibacterial soaps and water as well as the straps.  I wouldn't soak the straps in water or cleaning material as I don't see the straps holding up very well.  It would be better to clean them with a wet wash cloth.  Also the inexpensive metal may corrode if you don't dry it all the way.
The Bit can be stored in a drawer, a baggy or in the box that it comes in.  The box is not discreet with a picture of a woman wearing the bit and there is product information on the box.

The Beginner's Bit  Gag is named appropriately because this really won't last and wouldn't work for hard core play.  It is made from flimsy inexpensive materials that won't last for a long time period.   I am able to swallow and speak with the gag in and there is some drooling with it after wearing it for extended periods of time.

You can find it here  Fetish Fantasy Beginners Bit Gag

You can find this and other beginner to experienced BDSM toys at Uberkinky

Thanks to Uber Kinky for supplying the Bit to me for review.  You can purchase it here.

Do you want to Play? Something for the Weekend

Do you want to Play with Me??

Something for the weekend

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Wicked Wednesday - Radio

Wicked Wednesday


I love to listen to classic rock,  the songs take me back and I remember the parties, the road trips and all the memories that I have associated with those songs.  I remember the nights of lovemaking that accompanied those glorious melodies.

ACDC  She shook me all night long,  ACDC is just a great group to use for wild sex!

Touch Myself,  Devinyl's.  That one doesn't need any explanation.

You look Wondeful Tonight, Eric Clapton.  This is still one of my all time favorites.

Pour some Sugar on Me, Def Leopard.  I still remember cruising and screwing to that one.

You can Leave Your Hat On, Joe Cocker.  Great for stripping for your honey!

Slow Ride, fog Hat.

You and Me Going Fishing in the Dark, Nitty Gritty Dirt Band.  Yes, I know it's country. It is good!

Feel Like Making Love,  Bad Company.
I want you to want Me, Cheap Trick

Into The Mystic, Van Morrison 

Stroke, Billy Squire

Her Strut, Bob Seger

Closer, Nine Inch Nails

Play that Funky Music, Wild Cherry

Of course this is only a start.  There are so many more.  I just like the oldies. I'm not impressed with the hip hop and rap songs.  I like the randomness of the classic radio stations and when I;m cleaning the house or doing whatever, these songs take me back.

Wicked Wednesday... be inspired & share...

Monday, April 22, 2013

TMI College Sex

1) Have you ever been sexiled? (To be sexiled is to be denied the use of your room, usually dorm room, because someone is having sex there.)

This happened all the time when I was in the Army.  There were 3 of us in one room.  One of my room mates actually had her boyfriend living in out barracks room. That's ok, because I ended up staying in my boyfriends room all the time.

2) Were you ever hit on (propositioned) by a someone in your circle of friends who knew you were in a relationship with someone else?

I relate my experiences to the Army since I went there before college.  When I was college I lived on my own as a single parent.  Yes, this was something that frequently happened on the base where I was stationed.  I refer to my Army Days as the Fuck Fest.  Dam I miss those days!!!!

3) Did you ever date someone for sex only, i.e. in hopes of a 1-night stand?

Oh, of course I did.  I wouldn't call it a date, it was more of a "hook up".

4) Were you ever involved in a regrettable sexual incident where alcohol or drugs were involved?

Yes, I have many times.

5) Did you ever see a porn movie in an actual movie theater? Did you ever see porn on home movie (8mm) before the age of videotape?

 No, that was before my time.  I saw HBO and video tapes.

6) Did you ever discuss the prowess of a sex partner with a friend? Did the friend also have a history with the same person?

Yes, this happened, we were discussing my new friend and her new friend and then we found out that he was doing both of us at the same time.  He didn't know that we knew each other.

Bonus: Many heterosexuals ‘experiment’ in college by having their first same-sex encounter? If you are heterosexual did you have your first same-sex sexual experience in college? Did you like it? What did you do? Are you still hetero-flexible or did you become bisexual?

No, I didn't experiment in college or in the Army, this just wasn't my thing.  I would probably do it now though.  I had a lesbian friend kiss me on the lips a few years ago and she did it so wonderfully.  Too bad she is now in a committed relationship.

Note: Bonus question provided by Hedone.