The Tantric Remote Control

 from California Exotics

This one is fun!  I am very impressed with the range that the remote control has.  It makes for some fun foreplay.  I was actually able to use the remote through walls and I was able to go as far as 20 feet with an unobstructed path.

The tantric remote control was provided to me free of charge in exchange for an honest review.  This is part of the California Exotics Novelties Sexpert program.  This is in accordance with FTC guidelines.


The trantric remote control system consists of the remote control that fits easily into the palm of your hand.  It has scroll work and a purple background color.  The raised heart shape is the push button that controls the vibrations of the bean portion.

The  bean shaped piece that fits nicely into the females underwear is made of a plastic that has a velvety feel  to it.  It has no drag to it and glides across your skin nicely.  It has a curve to it so that it snuggles up to your external labia and clitoris area.  But, it  doesn't have any projections or bumps for the clitoris. It is completely smooth.
Both the remote and bean shaped portion are made from an ABS plastic that is non porous, latex and phthaltes free.  There is no smells or tastes associate with the system.

The remote control is 2  1/2 inches by  1  1/4 inches and has a thickness of   3/4  inch.   It runs on one  12 V battery that is included with the tantric.

The bean shaped piece is 3  1/4 inches by  2  inches.  It has a total thickness of  1 inch.  It is thick.  It holds 2 AAA batteries for power.  The battery cover slides off to insert the batteries.  There is not any waterproofing to this toy and the shape doesn't lend to insertion.  It is not meant to go there.


The tantric remote set has a total of 10 vibration settings.  To turn it on  you press and hold the heart shaped button for 2 to 3 seconds, you turn it off in the same manner.   It has a high, medium and low vibration, there are fast pulsations, slower pulsations, fast throbs and very fast throbs.  There are long slow pulses an escalation of pulsations and a chaotic mix of pulses and throbs.  I would say on the highest settings the vibrations could rate a 2  out of 5.  It is very quiet and couldn't be heard over the sheets or through a pair of underwear and pants.

You can easily wear this one in public and have your lover  10 feet away controling the vibrations.  To clean the bean shape you can use a wet wash cloth with antibacterial soaps and water, toy sprays or wipes.  Be careful as it is not waterproofed.  You can use any type of lubes with the ABS plastic.

The packaging is not discreet, it shows the toy through the clear plastic and I has product information all over the package.  The toy itself is  discreet because it doesn't look like a sex toy at all.

For someone interested in a couples toy who doesn't want to put out a lot of cash, this is a fair option. It would be more for a beginner couple beginning  their journey of using sex toys.  I found that the bean was a little thicker than what I would want to wear for any extended period of time.  It was comfortable enough, just too thick.  I was very impressed with the range in which the remote works and the vibrations are weak for me, it may be better suited to a female who has a sensitive clitoris.

We Vibe 3

We-Vibe 3

The wonderful people over at  Strawberry blushes provided me the We Vibe 3 in exchange for an honest review.  This is in accordance with  FTC Guidelines.

I love fact that I can get clitoral and g-spot stimulation and my partner can get the vibrations on the head of his penis at the same time!  Everybody wins.  The we vibe 3 can also be worn by me alone.  I can use it under my panties while I am wondering around the house doing housework and it is quiet enough that I can even wear it out of the house.  I do like to wear it while I am sitting here at my computer.  I like pressure on my clitoris and I can insert this one and sit down.  I can increase the stimulation with a rocking type of motion.  This one too, can be used for added stimulation while playing with my insertable dildo's.

We-Vibe 3  looks like a C, it hits  your  g-spot and clitoris at the same time as penetration is occurring and it has a remote control to control the vibrations so you don't have to put your hands down your pants to change the settings.  The We Vibe is made from hypoallergenic, non porous, latex and phthalates free silicone.  This type of silicone is tacky and does collect quite a bit of lint and hair.  There are no tastes or smells associated with the we vibe.  It comes in purple, rose and  teal.

Both the clitoral and G-spot areas have textures present.  There are grooves present that are more pronounced on the clitoral area.

 The we-vibe 3 has  2.75 insertable inches, It has a total length of 6  3/4 inches.   It is 1 inch across on the clitoral side and  1  inches across on the g-spot area. The larger portion is intended for the clitoral area and it is 3/4 of an inch thick.  The g-spot portion is 1 /2 inch thick. the connecting band   has a max of 1/4  inches across.  It fits comfortably in the palm of your hand.

 The we vibe 3 can be turned on by the button that is located on the end of the clitoral portion or you can use the remote  control.   The remote control has a limited range of 10 feet and it doesn't work well through lots of fabric or covers.  The remote is 2  1/2 inches   by  1  1/2 inches.  The battery in the remote are non replaceable and they are stated to last approximately 5 to 7 years.  The . It is a small white remote with a single button. You press the remote once and it turns the toy on,  each time you press the control it goes through the vibration settings.  The we vibe will turn off after you cycle through all of the settings or you can hold the button down for 3 seconds and the toy will shut off.  The button on the clitoral portion functions in the same manner.



6  Vibration Modes
1  LOW
2  HIGH
3   WAVE
4   PULSE
5   TEASE
6   CHA CHA





There are two motors that are quiet.  One in the g-spot area and one in the clitoral area They operate simultaneously, you cannot have one on without the other. The vibrations also carry well throughout the toy.  I can easily say the the we vibe cannot be heard over the covers, and I would say that the we vibe three hits a 3 out of 5 on the vibration scale on it's highest setting.  The vibrations in the 3 are stronger than those of the we vibe 2. But it is not as strong as my favorite clitoral vibes.

The storage compartment has a port where the adapter plugs in. There is an indicator light to show when the We-Vibe is charging, the light is constant  The initial charge takes a full 24 hours.

The We vibe does have a bit of drag to it that is easily remedied with the use of water based lubes.   Use only water based lubes with your silicone toys.  Since it is waterproof you can put it under running water.   It cleans up easily with antibacterial soaps and water, toy sprays or wipes.  It comes with a plastic storage compartment for storage that is very discreet and if you had it on your bathroom counter or your night stand no one would be the wiser.

The packaging is an oval shaped box with pictures and product information contained on the outside of it.  It has the plastic oval storage container that the we vibe and remote fit into.  You receive the storage compartment, the C shaped toy, the remote,the charging cable  and a product information pamphlet.

I have found that with using the we vibe with silicone insertable dildo's it likes to become dislodged easily.  I use this one for solo play more than anything.  It is nice when I am sitting at my computer to rock on.  The remote control works best when close to the unit and I can control it easily.  This way I don't have to stick my hands down my pants to change the settings.  I have noted that I can use it for almost 2 hours of play before the power starts to decrease.  If I hate to rate this one,  I would say that as a couples toy, it is not my favorite.  I like it more for my solo play and I would give it a 3 out of 5.  I cannot say that this one will be one of my favorites.

Special thanks to Strawberry blushes for providing me with the We Vibe 3 for review.

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